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Violent Femmes — Gone Daddy Gone
Album: Violent Femmes
Avg rating:
7.2

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Total ratings: 3614









Released: 1982
Length: 3:04
Plays (last 30 days): 2
Beautiful girl, lovely dress
High school smiles, oh yes
Beautiful girl, lovely dress
Where she is now I can only guess

'Cause it's gone, daddy, gone -- your love is gone
Yeah, it's gone, daddy, gone -- your love is gone
Yeah, it's gone, daddy, gone -- your love is gone
Yeah, it's gone, daddy, gone -- your love is gone away

When I see you, eyes will turn blue
When I see you, thousand eyes turnin' blue

'Cause it's gone, daddy, gone -- your love is gone
Yeah, it's gone, daddy, gone -- your love is gone
Yeah, it's gone, daddy, gone -- your love is gone
Yeah, it's gone, daddy, gone -- your love is gone away

Tell by the way that you switch and walk
I can see by the way that you baby-talk
I can know by the way you treat your man
I can love you, baby, 'til it's a-cryin...

'Cause it's gone, daddy, gone -- your love is gone
Yeah, it's gone, daddy, gone -- your love is gone
Yeah, it's gone, daddy, gone -- your love is gone
Yeah, it's gone, daddy, gone -- your love is gone away

Beautiful girl, lovely dress
Fifteen smiles, oh, yes
Beautiful girl, lovely dress
Where she is now, I can only guess 'cause it's...
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Saw them live at UNC-Chapel Hill with our then 12 y/o son whose teacher thought it was so cool that he got out of school early to go see them.

Hey...

Ain't this the band that sings about staining sheets?

Oh my!  How low has rock n roll fallen!  
Where is everyone?
The origina! 10 for that.
 zepher wrote:





 buh bye!
 baddog8it wrote:


My ears tell me that it's a marimba...

You are CORRECT!!  It is Todd Rundgren's personal marimba. He produced this album and actually played it on this song.
 musikluvr wrote:
There are just not enough xylophone solos in rock songs these days. {#Bananajumprope}


My ears tell me that it's a marimba...
 joejennings wrote:
OK, I did some research. It IS a MARIMBA (wooden tines)! Todd Rundgren produced this album. He brought his personal marimba into the studio & played on this song!  GREAT SONG!!   



 drewd wrote:
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Nice one Drew
*meh*
I generally like the Femmes, but not this particular VF tune.

why, you ask? The xylophone solo is just crappy,  uninspired, & annoying af.

Thank you for asking.
 musikluvr wrote:
There are just not enough xylophone solos in rock songs these days. {#Bananajumprope}


Check out some Human Ottoman.
 drewd wrote:
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Too funny!  GREAT TUNE!! 
 MilidelEubanks wrote:

Aging myself, but back in the day Milwaukee had a few free admission festivals on the lakefront. Saw the Femmes a couple times at these free concerts.  Great shows.




You Lucky Duck! I wish I had been there!
 MilidelEubanks wrote:

Aging myself, but back in the day Milwaukee had a few free admission festivals on the lakefront. Saw the Femmes a couple times at these free concerts.  Great shows.



Likewise -- Saw them at a Portland, OR festival -- very cool how just the 3 of them filled the sound and had the crowd dancing. No kick-drum or toms for the drummer, just a snare and xylophone. Interesting bass guitar tone with the big wooden acoustic bass guitar.
Maybe it's part of a "Father's Day" playlist today, and I'm hearing it differently, +3 to 8.
LLRP!!
Aging myself, but back in the day Milwaukee had a few free admission festivals on the lakefront. Saw the Femmes a couple times at these free concerts.  Great shows.
 Jayesea wrote:

A fantastic debut album.  Holds up very well today imo.  Great musicianship as well.



agreed. there's just something about his voice. i wish i could put my finger on the word of how it makes me feel... like, it's not romantic, it's not a perfect singing voice, but somehow it's kinda sexy still...
Takes me back to high school in the '80s.  Dancing in my kitchen   
Nothing like The Femmes.  
OK, I did some research. It IS a MARIMBA (wooden tines)! Todd Rundgren produced this album. He brought his personal marimba into the studio & played on this song!  GREAT SONG!!   
A fantastic debut album.  Holds up very well today imo.  Great musicianship as well.
 zepher wrote:



Fickle alert! 
6am & my coffee is kicking in. Good Morning!   Thanx RP!   
 Ok_Sobriquet wrote:

Is it a marimba, or a vibraphone?




Marimba!  Wooden bars (tines)!
Is it a marimba, or a vibraphone?
Needs followed up with SCOTS!!!
I love the marimba!!! 
 drewd wrote:
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"One minute I'm happily munching on bananas in the jungle; the next thing I know..."
GREAT TUNE!!!
It is hard to describe to kids these days (shakes fist at sky) just how perfect this entire album is.
 drewd wrote:
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Too funny!
 musikluvr wrote:
There are just not enough xylophone solos in rock songs these days. {#Bananajumprope}


agreed!  rocking the marimba.  Milwaukee's finest!
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Many think it's a xylophone, it's actually a marimba! Nice use of atonal melody in the solo. Unusual and kind of jarring!
All the hippies are dancing to this one
heck yeah..its got body and beats i don't know about stained sheets though it's your album. be4con wrote:
This entire album is brilliant. Love it!
 

Best xylophone since Ruth Underwood-Mothers of Invention
Love the xylophone
Forget the Cowbell     More  Xylophone!
Dial the Surreality Factor up to...ELEVEN!
This entire album is brilliant. Love it!
 rpdevotee wrote:
And the award for the best use of xylophone in a contemporary song goes to!
Correction...
The award for the only use of xylophone in a contemporary song goes to!
 
I got a chance to see the Violent Femmes live a few years ago. It was impressive to see the dude whale on the marimba during this song!
 rpdevotee wrote:
And the award for the best use of xylophone in a contemporary song goes to!
Correction...
The award for the only use of xylophone in a contemporary song goes to!
 
..and thank goodness it's the only use of xylophone in a contemporary song...
And the award for the best use of xylophone in a contemporary song goes to!
Correction...
The award for the only use of xylophone in a contemporary song goes to!
remembering a sick dance party on 12/31/16 spinning this on vinyl at ridiculous volumes 
 impediguy wrote:

The B-52s were passé by the time the Femmes came around. Even so, it was 30 years ago today my college band learned to play (this song). But who cares?

 
This is literally the only song on their debut album that even sounds remotely like the B52s, so like, nevermind.
 kingart wrote:
Who came first, these dudes or the B-52s?
 

 
The B-52s were passé by the time the Femmes came around. Even so, it was 30 years ago today my college band learned to play (this song). But who cares?
 zerosomething wrote:
A classic 
 
Of the Bergholt Stuttley Johnson variety.
{#Bananajam}
love it !
 kcar wrote:

Not as wunnerful when Bowie's "Panic in Detroit" gets played before it...

 
They fit together in an odd way; Bill knows what he's up to.
bump 5 > 6. Not great, but fun. 
Hell, it's Christmas, let's give some extra points just for showing up.
Who came first, these dudes or the B-52s?
 
 Peace0fmind wrote:
I'm lovin' the Violent retro{#Dancingbanana_2}

 
Not as wunnerful when Bowie's "Panic in Detroit" gets played before it...
A classic 
More Femmes needed on RP.
Epic Xylophone Solo!  Woohoo!  love it
 aelfheld wrote:
Yeah, it was.  Just because too many were whacked out of their gourds to realise it at the time doesn't change the fact it's dreck.
 
I just love it when people complain about other folks being "whacked out of their gourds".  Makes me wonder if they're jealous.

Total flashback to my college day. Driving around in a van full of hot crew girls. Yummo!


rock and roll xylophone. yes!
There are just not enough xylophone solos in rock songs these days. {#Bananajumprope}
Oh yes.

Have to love that funky vibe - used to dance like a loon to this in my younger years. 
 rich95969 wrote:
F'ing annoying as hell. Finally, something that got me to abandon RP in favor of mainstream internet radio.

 

Bill, you are rockin' it this morning!  Thank You!
{#Bananasplit}

That is all. lol
F'ing annoying as hell. Finally, something that got me to abandon RP in favor of mainstream internet radio.

Elvis Costello followed by Violent Femmes.. I'll take nerdy '80s quasi-punks for $100?
Will always, always remind me of a girl I dated at ISU so many years ago. Instant flashback to those great times.{#Kiss}
I dig these guys! His voice has just the right amount of whiney creepy. Plus the bones...OY!
I'm lovin' the Violent retro{#Dancingbanana_2}
Where else can you play an partially off key marimba solo and pull it off? The Femmes...that's where!
I was almost certain this was the Gnarls Barkley remake until I looked at the playlist. Seems like GB could have spent some more effort on giving it a twist of their own…
Yeah!  Xylophone!
Wanted: One Xylophone Player 4 Violent Femmes Cover Band - experience with Frank Zappa is a plus. 

Also,
Must look good in Go Go Boots.


and be willing to travel....



I know the Femmes were an 80's band, but so were the B-52s....

 aelfheld wrote:

Yeah, it was.  Just because too many were whacked out of their gourds to realise it at the time doesn't change the fact it's dreck.
 
Were people less "whacked out of their gourds" in the 1960s and '70s?
 blackjackshellac wrote:
Sure as hell wasn't school band slacker noise, whatever that is, in 1982.
 
Yeah, it was.  Just because too many were whacked out of their gourds to realise it at the time doesn't change the fact it's dreck.
 Aud wrote:
Those aren't go-go boots...in the true sense of the fashion statement
 
zepher wrote:
Something about the xylophone makes me think of gogo boots?

 
 
Up here in the north we call them "CFM" boots!
Epic Xylophone Solo! {#Dancingbanana}
Those aren't go-go boots...in the true sense of the fashion statement
 
zepher wrote:
Something about the xylophone makes me think of gogo boots?

 


Something about the xylophone makes me think of gogo boots?


Turn up the volume!!!!{#Dancingbanana}
 Xing wrote:
Raddledaddle school band slacker noise. Annoyingly boring,
 
Sure as hell wasn't school band slacker noise, whatever that is, in 1982.
Raddledaddle school band slacker noise. Annoyingly boring,
 Nice!
Friday night in Stockholm, this is just right, solid 8+ here
Ah the Femmes! From my home town Milwaukee! 


This song gets an 8 because it is all high school and college. Cranking the song in the car windows down in the summer. Drinking in the dorms in the winter and acting like kids. Love it.
 MJdub wrote:
Epic Xylophone Solo!  Woohoo!

 
Bringing this up top in hopes Bill sees it and DOES add it to the icon library! {#Pray}
Very good.
 Deadwing wrote:


Seriously?

What does Country Death Song have in common with Planet Claire?

The Femmes talk about throwing their unwanted children down wells and the 52s sing about purple dogs.

Those bands are nothing alike.

Well, I guess they are white people playing music There is that.

{#Tongue-out}
 
I hear a smidgen of the B-52s in the tone of the guitar in the bridge.  It's sounds surfy.  There could be some Ricky Wilson influence there.  Maybe. *shrug*  But "maybe some influence" is only as far as it goes, IMO.  Probably more of a general new wave influence.

 Deadwing wrote:
Seriously?

What does Country Death Song have in common with Planet Claire?

The Femmes talk about throwing their unwanted children down wells and the 52s sing about purple dogs.

Those bands are nothing alike.

Well, I guess they are white people playing music There is that.

{#Tongue-out}
 
I'm with you, 'wing. The only thing I can figure, it's that sorta twangy guitar, and the somewhat fractious sound of the whole affair. Other than that, I don't see any connection either.

What an awesome drinking album  
 kingart wrote:
Emulating the B-52s, who weren't exactly an epiphany. People like this, but in their comments rail quite nastily against other tunes that are less gimmicky, more musical. Go figure. 
 

Seriously?

What does Country Death Song have in common with Planet Claire?

The Femmes talk about throwing their unwanted children down wells and the 52s sing about purple dogs.

Those bands are nothing alike.

Well, I guess they are white people playing music There is that.

{#Tongue-out}
I saw these guys years ago at 688 in Atlanta (Hallowed Ground tour) and when it was time for the encore Gordon and the bass player acted like they were running back out onto the stage but stopped in the wings and the drummer ran out by himself cheering, smiling, and jumping up and down. Then he realized he was alone.

It was f*ckin hilarious

I love these guys 

Good times 


Emulating the B-52s, who weren't exactly an epiphany. People like this, but in their comments rail quite nastily against other tunes that are less gimmicky, more musical. Go figure. 
 chadlymn wrote:
I hear that!!

 
tkay73 wrote:
Brings back memories of being a teen driving around w/ my teen friends and yelling this song as we drove around town.
What fun!
 
 
I was JUST telling my boyfriend how this reminds me of my teenage years. Walking, Driving, Dancing, Singing around my little town, stars in my eyes & a dream in my heart.

                                       {#Wave}and don't come back until your gone !!
 kaybee wrote:

Love your xylophone icon MJdub.  Hope Bill adds it to the icon bank!

Xylophone usually doesn't do it for me, but it really works with this piece.
  I second this.  Still can't handle the song, but the xylophone icon is really cool... (and I guess we'll need a cowbell icon, too...) *evil giggle*


Love the xylophone!
 Hannio wrote:

 

{#Roflol}{#Clap}
This is a great song off of a great album! The Gnarls Barkley remake? Well, they ought not a done that!{#Naughty}
Violent Femmes - Gone Daddy Gone
Elvis Costello - Pump It Up

Bill plays this segue enough that I look forward to this song when I hear Pump It Up, but wouldn't Blister in the Sun be a more fitting follow up, ya know, thematically?  {#Eyes}
I heard this song in Chipotle the other day.  Mmmmmmm.

MORE FEMMES!!! {#Bananapiano}
It certainly is a quirky Friday ... and I'm likin' it!!!! {#Jump}
Ah memories ... my first born daughter was born in 1982 when this was released. The Black Keys owe much to the Violent Femmes. Love this song.
This song is one of those ear-worms that just drives me crazy in a bad way.  "GoneDaddyGoneLoveIsGone..."  It just hurts my ears. I love Violent Femmes - I hate this song. I've tried to be okay with it, but... Sorry. Can't. {#Hand}
K   E   Y   S
I hear that!!

 
tkay73 wrote:
Brings back memories of being a teen driving around w/ my teen friends and yelling this song as we drove around town.
What fun!
 


i can guess
 MJdub wrote:
Epic Xylophone Solo!  Woohoo!

 
Love your xylophone icon MJdub.  Hope Bill adds it to the icon bank!

Xylophone usually doesn't do it for me, but it really works with this piece.


Epic Xylophone Solo!  Woohoo!

Brings back memories of being a teen driving around w/ my teen friends and yelling this song as we drove around town.
What fun!
9!

 
gatorade wrote:
I can't decide if it's a 7 or 8. Always go on the high side!
 


I can't decide if it's a 7 or 8. Always go on the high side!
 siskinbob wrote:
Has it gone yet ?? {#Wall}
 
It can't go too soon. {#Eek}
 LastChance wrote:
Oww! This just doesn't fit after Elvis Costello's "Pump It Up."
 

Just think about it...it will come too you.
Oww! This just doesn't fit after Elvis Costello's "Pump It Up."
Has it gone yet ?? {#Wall}
Rock and roll marimba {#Dancingbanana}