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Men in love - or the cold cold heart   

Posted by ericcabrals - Mar 15, 2014 - 1:07pm
When I was 14, I used to tell my friends that I'd be the best man in the world. I'd have a house, a good family and a woman to respect and love. That was the truth! I can still feel how truly those words mean for me and for people I know. So, I arrived at 16. That's really a different age. I've not only felt in love for one girl, but for various.

For you, Paradise's listener, that do not know what goes on at men's mind on this age, I'll tell you: GIRLS! This is the only thing we could fight for. Not only the education, neither the professionals skills could drive us away from our destiny. But the girls. They could get us as an innocent boy and put the spirit of a man under our souls. It's wonderful! Driving the life via a good direction isn't so easy for an adolescent; even for a boy. Yesterday I listened the music "Sacrifice",  singed by the pretty singer Sinead, and the part "sensitivity builds a prison in the final act" took my attention and put me in a sentimental way. Well, it wasn't difficult for me remember how my girls used to be. They were beautiful, intelligent and feminine - each one as her way. "Two different worlds, just one universe", I usually said. The beautifully in women that attracts the men is her feminine way of being a human being. A lot of things can attract a man in a woman - her body, her intelligence, the way she lives her life, but the passion begins when her feminine way drive the male away.

When I was a teenager, my grandfather told me that I should never trust in a woman - as the "Lemon Tree", by Peter, Paul and Mary. "Be a man! Strong and full of virility! Love the women, but never fall for it.", he said. Well, for me it was just a machismo expression. It could be. Now, that I'm a man, I think that my grandfather was right. The women nowadays are taking another way, losing the feminine direction and giving the excuse of the feminism fight. Their expressions, feelings and souls are not corrupted. They're still pretty and wonderful by nature. Now, never than ever, the men must be a man and shows the girls the right direction they must go away. We don't need the cold cold heart man. We don't need the cold cold heart girl. We just need two hearts sacrificing for love.

3 comments on this journal entry.

PoundPuppy Avatar

Posted: May 1, 2014 - 9:33am

Agreed. We also need to stop running out on relationships and playing musical partners. 
An old lady put it best once while we were discussing life: " If you wanna go somewhere, you hop on the bus. If you hop off and switch buses everytime you hit a bump in the road you'll never get anywhere...you just ride around town."
Sounds silly but it makes total sense 
We're all riders on this train
ScottN Avatar

Location: Half inch above the K/T boundary

Posted: Mar 15, 2014 - 8:31pm

Your grandfather may well have been wrong. Did he tell his granddaughters' "don't trust a man"?   Good luck. {#Good-vibes}

Antigone Avatar

Location: A house, in a Virginian Valley

Posted: Mar 15, 2014 - 4:51pm